Sep 5, how to renew interest?

by KismetKiss
(Rhode Island)

I have been dating a man long distance since May. We met while in my State, traveling for work.We remained in contact via phone/text/email during 2 months. came to the point that was text me every day and we would have amazing phone conversations of 2 to 3 hours. It was sweet and insecure at times, but I had no doubt how concerned was.

Came my way a month this summer to visit his relatives that he had in my State.We spent some time together and met with families of each of the otros.Pasé much time with her mother and her child. Got physics around one week before he got here, not having sex, however. I di account that afterward, he seemed distant and single-family w / sometimes, especially when we were out in public, not love... sometimes I felt a bit ignored/invisible.

When he left, said he wanted to continue the things long distance, but it looked not me not to date other people. I said jokingly "does not live w / someone or in a relationship would be, you are?" He said that no, not at all... he not me ye spend so much time w / family and meet your child, if that were the case and spoke about State I will visit him.

After he left home, daily calls and texts stopped. Still we talked about once or twice a week. Sent you an email saying that I thought that we must end things, because I felt as if the emotional connection wasn't there when he came to see me and seemed distant and separate, unlike when was text and talk to me all the days before your visit. I told her not interested in a scenario of w/benefits of friends & wanted something that at least had the potential to go somewhere.

I do not hear back him during some days and Lump a little and sent you another e-mail.This one said that it might have been rushing things emotional connection... and we are still know one another, and I know that he is gun-shy of his last marriage (which he is not completely outside of...)(This is his third marriage).I told her physical to obtain as soon after that he obtained here clouded my emotions that still a bit, but I wanted to continue things, making the casual dating thing, dating to others if the opportunity arises and is slow both physical as emotionally. wrote back saying slow sounded great... was truly gun shy after your last relationship & he struggled a bit w / we get physical so soon after won here, wanting to be there, but cursed at the same time.Said friends sounds perfect for now, adding that he thought we should put physical things aside for a while, but he still wants to stay in touch and see me as time permits.

We have talked a few times since then & he is getting my form the next week to visit their relatives for a day & said that he wants to see me while he is here.My question is why he apparently losing some interest/freak then obtained here? what is because I have physical w / you too fast or he felt that he wanted more? and what friends w / sounds them perfect for now and disregarding physical things for a while?

Has completely lost romantic interest and only sees me as a platonic friend? I've been backing out a little and seems to be coming, but I don't want to waste my time if you think of me just so Platonic. is too late to save things? how do I do to renew and maintain the interest??So many thanks!

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